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Uko wamenya ko urimo gukoza aho umugore yifuza igihe muhuza igitsina

 

Ubundi ku banyarwanda cyane cyane ku gitsina gore kuko ndababwira ibi nk’umugore ukuze. Bwaba ari ubwa mbere bwaba ubwa kangaye kirazira ko muhita mwinjiza igitsina cy’umugabo mu cy’umugore [gucumita].

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Nyine iyo mumaze kwitegura mwembi,mumaze kumvikana ujya hejuru yundi cyangwa niba mubikora mwicaye[ahanini ni nabyo byiza kwicara]bya bindi wavuze ko bigizayo imishino umwe hirya undi hino bakoresheje intoke ubundi guswera neza kugirango ushimishe umukunzi wawe.

Igitsina cy’umugabo cyashyutswe cyafashe umurego nicyo ukoresha ndetse umukunzi wawe umugore/umukobwa umuha uburenganzira akagifata akaba aricyo akoresha yigizayo imishino, ayikoza hirya no hino, hasi hejuru, ayitsirima kuri rugongo no munsi yayo cyane cyane kuri kariya nakwita agatini ka rugongo, icyo gihe intoke z’umugabo ziba zikinisha rugongo ziyitinura umugore akajya ayiziringaho umutwe wayo.

Ubwo umushyukwe uramutwara ukamurenga neza noneho imishino ikabyimba igahagarara, kwa kuyiziringaho hirya hino hepfo hejuru kuri rugongo ku mishino, noneho bivamo ibyo bita gukunuta vuba vuba rimwe na rimwe uwabanje gukoresha igitsina (cy’umugabo) aba ananiwe intoke kandi igicyina cy’umugore kiba kimaze kureta cyazanye amazi ahagije.

Ariko kandi wibuke ko cya gihe umugore ariho ayifata akayishyira aho yumva we ubwe ashaka yishimira ahamurya kuko niwe uba ahazi icyo gihe umugabo nawe aba amusomagura aho ashobora gushyikira cyane cyane mu mabere cyane cyane ku moko kuko imoko nayo irashyukwa ikarega wayikoraho ukumva imeze nk’akabuye kuko iba yashyutswe kuko burya ikorana na rugongo.

Ngarutse rero kuri kwa kwakuranwa iyo kimaza kureta kwa gukunguta nababwiye,hari abagore/abakobwa bashimishwa no gukomeza gukunguta kuko amazi aba arekereje gusohoka, noneho ayo mazi akamukirigita imbere noneho akaryoherwa aruko ameneka nta kuntu yameneka rero utayijungujemo imbere.

Hari nabandi bashimishwa no gucumitwa mu gihe imbere haba harese, mbese niwe ubikwibwirira kuko aba yatwawe, akabwira umugabo ati nsoka imbere, cyangwa ati yishyiremo ukaba rero wumvise icyo ashaka.

Naho ukunda kunyazwa iyo cyarese amazi yatangiye kuza,kuko nyine aba yatwawe arakubwira ati komeza ukubite,ndetse hari igihe umugore ayisingira akayinjizamo, noneho akayizunguza vuba vuba ukamwakira ukabikora nkuko yabikoraga,

Ndetse bene abo bagore barasohora n’abagabo amasohoro akaza kandi hari igihe murangiriza rimwe kuko iyo ari hafi kurangiza nibwo abwira umugabo ati cumita ati bigiye kuza ati biri hafi mbese utugambo nkutwo twinshi noneho umugabo agacumita yungikanya vuba vuba noneho mukaba murarangije rwose ukumva igitsina cye [umugore] kirakurura imboro[kinyunya ubwo`rero akiruhutsa nyine biba bigeze mu kadomo. Ngibyo nguko!!

Izi nyigisho zigenewe abashakanye cyangwa bari mu nzira yo kurushinga, ntabwo tuzitanga kugirango twigishe ubusambanyi, rubyiruko mwirinde ubusambanyi, mutegereze mwubake ingo zanyu, mutazanduriramo SIDA, imitezi n’izindi ndwara zandurira mu mibonano mpuzabitsina cyangwa mugatwara inda mutabiteguye kandi mutanafite ubushobozi bwo kurera umwana….mwe mwashakanye nababwira iki!